Tips to educate overly talkative children
When the time comes when the child starts talking and says his first words without a doubt is one of the most exciting times for parents. However, soon after, the moment in which the child launches to speak definitively and goes through a stage in which it seems to speak without stopping . Is it goo
When the time comes when the child starts talking and says his first words without a doubt is one of the most exciting times for parents.
However, soon after, the moment in which the child launches to speak definitively and goes through a stage in which it seems to speak without stopping. Is it good to stop them or should we let them express themselves even if they talk too much?
When the children begin to speak fluently
The moment the child starts to say his first words (around the year), the language development starts to go faster and the children are able to understand more than what the child does. they say and little by little, the construction of sentences and the maturation of speech will allow them to communicate freely with others. Each day they learn new words that they are able to learn by paying attention to their surroundings.
But when the little ones already have the language dominated (between 4-5 years old), they may become talkative experts. Some parents may think that children talk too much and that they should do less. But what is correct in the event that a child talks 'too much'?
Tips to educate overly talkative children
Children, are never too talkative and parents should be their best listeners without exception. Although it is not the same as a child who talks a lot because he wants to have all his illusion what he has lived in school or because he wants to share with you new knowledge, than those children who maybe speak things that should not at inappropriate times ... but in both cases They want to communicate and express their ideas, and this should not be inhibited.
In the case of the first children, it is a natural and healthy thing to talk a lot and in the case of the second, also ... but they must be redirected so that they understand that there are moments (of privacy in family) that can be talked about of certain things and other moments (in public places), where you must keep your composure.
When a child talks a lot at inappropriate times, it is good to keep some things in mind:
- Do not scold him, he does not know it is an inappropriate moment, just tell him you will talk about it later.
- When the time comes to talk about it later, it is necessary to explain to him why the previous moment was not an opportune place to talk about the topic he wanted.
- If the child wants to talk about something that does not correspond you should not get angry and much less ridicule him. En - Under no circumstances should a child be told to shut up or be weighed by talking a lot, because doing this directly attacks their self-esteem and their motivation to have good communication is denied, ideally to guide them to have a good communication.
