What to do if you have a popular child
Being determined, ready, taking good grades , having many experiences to tell, being physically graceful, mastering the communicative language and knowing how to relate with other girls healthily, are fundamental characteristics to be in the school a popular girl. Practicing a sport in an outstandin
Being determined, ready, taking good grades, having many experiences to tell, being physically graceful, mastering the communicative language and knowing how to relate with other girls healthily, are fundamental characteristics to be in the school a popular girl.
Practicing a sport in an outstanding way, or being handsome, getting good grades and having certain leadership skills such as good communication, certain empathy, and feeling of justice, are characteristics for them interesting enough to be a popular child at school.
The traits or characteristics offered above respond to some patterns that we pedagogues have seen as predominant of these popular children, but it is truly the others who make them popular.
Being a popular child has associated a series of dangers for the correct emotional and social development of the child. We tell you what they can be and what to do if you have a popular child. What to do if you have a popular child?
If your daughter child is popular in school, we must teach them to assume that role and train them to continue maintaining those skills to have a healthy and normal maturational development, according to their age.
We must
monitor the behavior of popular children as it can lead to: - Authoritarianism: Quickly the popular child, realizes that he
can persuade in others, and begins to assume that it can and can not be You can do, by making authoritarianism your way of establishing relationships and imposing your demands. - Stop being empathic: Start not being able to put yourself in the other's place and
not respect the feelings of others. - To think that they are essential:
He can begin to feel that others are mere companions of his person and he is indispensable, valuing very little to the people of his immediate surroundings. None of the previous 3 are characteristic of a
good leader, and surely develop worse, because if it becomes less empathetic, more authoritarian and feel more than others, in a short time they will turn it aside , and I will go from being popular to one more, or even, to one less, with the difficulty that then entails rehacerte of that possible rejection.What we should train
to improve popular children are: - Communication skills: Know that the word is the engine to do things. Que - That
empathize more
, that they are able to respect the feelings of others and put themselves in the place of others. - Tobe aware
that his situation is due to the fact that others have chosen him involuntarily. Train him to know the important values of people so that he can transmit them, such as loyalty
, humility, friendshipor justice . This type of popular people if they are trained in these three aspects will have a development and abright adolescence
in terms of personal relationships. If our children do not have this profile, we should not worry, but we should also train them in the three previous aspects, such as improving their communication skills que, working on their empathy knowing their emotions and those of others, and knowing about the
importance of their role in the groups, in the class, and to know the universal values.
