At some point in your child's childhood he will tell you a lie, and depending on how old your child is, that lie can be more or less sophisticated. Children usually when they lie they always do it for some reason, that although it is not justifiable they will help you to understand why they do it an
At some point in your child's childhood he will tell you a lie, and depending on how old your child is, that lie can be more or less sophisticated. Children usually when they lie they always do it for some reason, that although it is not justifiable they will help you to understand why they do it and also, to be able to teach you better not to be a liar. Lying child. How to stop childish lies
Sometimes lies appear not to hurt someone's feelings, sometimes to protect themselves from possible negative consequences by something they have done or said before, etc. Until the age of six, children find it difficult to differentiate between reality and fantasy, which is why they have to be helped to understand and it is from the age of six that children begin to know the difference between good and evil and need them to Orient not to lie.
The first thing you will have to do is to know what is happening and discover why you have chosen to lie. Sometimes the lies can be to call attention, for lack of self-esteem, for emotional lacks, etc. It is important that if you find out that your son is lying, do not accuse him of lying or ridicule him because otherwise his self-esteem will be seriously damaged.If you discover him in a liedo not talk to your son in public about it,
it is better to wait until you are alone to explain him affectionately that you know he has been lying and that this can have negative consequences since lies are not tolerated in any way. It would also be very important that you make your child see everyday activities with the importance of honesty and sincerity in the family.
What to do in the face of a lie from my son If you know that your son is lying to you, while doing so you should take a deep breath and, above all, follow these tips that will help you handle the situation: Mant 1. Keep calm. 2. Do not take the lie as something personal, take it as an opportunity to teach your son great lessons about honesty and sincerity.
3. Find out why your child is lying, such as not to upset you.
4. Explain to your child why it is wrong to lie. Point out to your child that telling the truth even if you do not like it is honorable but lying about mistakes or other reasons will always be unacceptable. Con 5. Concentrate on the motive and not on the lie. Dec 6. Decide on reasonable consequences without needing them to be too harsh.
7. Tell him that you love him, this will help him develop his conscience and regret the behavior of the lie.
With all this and little by little, you will get your child to realize that it is better not to lie and will be, little by little, more sincere.