After the birth of a baby things change in the couple and it is something inevitable, it is an important change in the couple that we need to know how to take so that the love relationship between two people Do not fall down. It seems that when a child is born, there is no money, there is no time an
After the birth of a baby things change in the couple and it is something inevitable, it is an important change in the couple that we need to know how to take so that the love relationship between two people Do not fall down.
It seems that when a child is born, there is no money, there is no time and there is no sex, how can a relationship between partners be carried out in this way? It is possible, and it is a matter of two people that the flame of love does not go out.
The first problems after childbirth
If all the energy that is spent in feeling resentment for the couple is used to find solutions, there would never be relationship problems. It can be a complicated time because the first problems appear in the couple after childbirth, but what kind of problems are they? How can they be solved?
- Household chores. Household tasks accumulate and the couple's discussions also accumulate. Before having the baby it is possible that everything was controlled but now things must be done quickly. You need coordination and a good organization to avoid fights. Thinking about what the tasks are and what each one has to do is a success.
- Fatigue. The few hours of sleep make fatigue accumulate and nerves jump the first time. We are more sensitive and with less sense of humor. Try to be understanding with your partner. Maybe he does not want to put up with jokes when he wants to sleep.
-Different styles of parenting. It is necessary that both for things like sleeping, how to feed the baby or any other topic, the couple know how to commit and communicate in order to carry the same line of upbringing. If there are doubts or fights because of this it is necessary to go to the pediatrician to advise on the most recommended methods (for example co-sleeping, sleeping in the crib or in another room). It is also important that both parents inform each other together to make decisions together so they can talk about what they can do best.
-Sexual desire plummets. This is common in women after childbirth and it usually takes at least six weeks for the body to recover and be ready again to have sex. Hormonal changes can make a woman not want sex until a year goes by (it's the way nature prevents a woman from getting pregnant too soon).
That both members of the couple understand this is fundamental so that afterwards it is easier to treat these problems, it has nothing to do with wanting more or less loving the couple ... it is nature that provokes it. The important thing in this time is to focus on non-sexual romantic actions in order to continue to fan the flame of love. Having time as a couple is essential! Although they are few minutes a day ...