Sandwich technique to change the behavior of children

There is nothing that desperates more to parents than a rebellious child who does not want to change his behavior : who beats other children, who constantly disobeys ... However, yes we have a very useful tool (although few know it): 'the sandwich technique' , a technique that is not based on punish

There is nothing that desperates more to parents than a rebellious child who does not want to change his behavior: who beats other children, who constantly disobeys ... However, yes we have a very useful tool (although few know it):'the sandwich technique', a technique that is not based on punishments, but on the power of praise. Surprising!

The 3 steps of the sandwich technique to change the behavior of children

The sandwich technique is based on achieving a change through constructive criticism. Before releasing a negative message to the child, you should soften that moment with a compliment and end with a positive message. The psychologist Elia Roca explains that to achieve this, we must respect these 3 steps: Un 1. Sincere praise.

Before launching the child's request for a change in behavior, you should begin by praising, short and sincere, that the child can understand. For example: 'You already know that I love you very much' You have wonderful qualities ... ' 2. Petition for behavior change

After praise, it is time: you must state the need to change behavior. seconds since you launched the eulogy and add a 'but' ... 'You know I love you very much, but ...' Then send your wish you want and you need to change behavior: 'You know I love you a lot, but ... I need you to change and stop hitting other children ... 'After you send your request, you must explain why:' I need you to change and stop hitting the other children because when you do it, you hurt them '... And then you you say what you need me to do: 'I would like you to stop doing that from now on' ... 3. Appreciation

You always have to finish with a positive message, so, after asking for a change in behavior, you should end up thanking something, using for it 'even that ':' Although I would really appreciate it if you always feel angry, tell me '. Undoubtedly,

a positive technique , which reinforces the child's self-esteem, makes him feel important, encourages him to make decisions and gives him responsibility for his actions.