How the arrival of the first baby in the couple influences
The birth of the first child is one of the most beautiful experiences that exists and although motherhood and fatherhood are stages that are lived with great enthusiasm, they also mean the arrival of changes in the way of life that can affect the couple differently. The new member of the family mono
The birth of the first child is one of the most beautiful experiences that exists and although motherhood and fatherhood are stages that are lived with great enthusiasm, they also mean the arrival of changes in the way of life that can affect the couple differently. The new member of the family monopolizes all the attention of the parents, and the
space and time that before was of two now is completely occupied by the attentions that the baby requires. The couple and the arrival of their first baby
In general, recent parents have decided to go a step further in their decision to father a child, taking into account the
responsibilities that this entails. The care of the baby will affect the day to day of the couple and the division of tasks such as
breastfeeding, changing diapers, bathrooms, walks and, ultimately, will involve less sleep and dedication hours for both partners as himself. The mother's life is altered to a greater degree due to the
recovery period necessary after childbirth, breastfeeding and maternity leave, if she is a working woman. In some cases there may be cases of postpartum depression that will require psychological treatment and the support of the couple. On the other hand, sexual relationships can also be altered with the arrival of the baby. The tiredness and attention that the child requires can cause a
decrease in the frequency that they used to have before birth or pregnancy and get to cause frustration. In addition, first-time parents often sin of having overprotective attitudes with the baby because of the fear of something bad happening to them, which can also cause the appearance of conflicts within the couple.
Advice for the first-time couple
First, it is important that the parents commit themselves to have a baby being aware of the responsibility that this stage implies, and never look for the arrival of a child as a possible solution for the
couple problems. When the baby is born, it is usual for the mother to try to carry all the responsibility of the child on her back, even if she feels exhausted. For this reason it is advisable that
be allowed to help by your partner and even by grandparents, uncles or friends, who may also be participants in the arrival of the new member to the family. In the case of first-time parents, the opposite is the case,
they feel displaced or even a hindrance when caring for the child. The father does not have to be a mere observer, but must participate in the process and enjoy little by little the father-son bond that will be created. Regarding the tasks of home and newborn care, it is advisable to do an
equitable distribution to avoid work overload and conflicts that may arise from this issue. On the other hand, it is important that the couple's relationship is not neglected. Although the first months the baby completely absorbs the attention of parents, it is also essential that they spend time together and intimate and that
maintain a healthy sobre communication about the wonderful period they are living. Patricia García. Guiainfantil.com
