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For children to feel how their effort is being rewarded they will need to feel an incentive and thus motivation will also appear easily. This incentive does not have to be something material, much less, since praise and goodwill are more than enough to encourage good behavior. How to encourage effor
For children to feel how their effort is being rewarded they will need to feel an incentive and thus motivation will also appear easily. This incentive does not have to be something material, much less, since praise and goodwill are more than enough to encourage good behavior.
How to encourage effort in children
Children must learn to work hard in any task, they must understand all the good that effort offers, savor the challenges and understand the value of persistence. Unfortunately many parents see their children as boys and girls who avoid the effort que and who complain about anything they do
. To prevent children from complaining about what they do, it is necessary to encourage the effort, how? With the following tips: 1.Praise the behavior.
When the behavior is praised and a child is told what they like about him, he will be able to know exactly what is expected of his attitude and he will also feel good about himself. It will be necessary to praise in a descriptive way, that is, say what you like exactly, for example: 'I really liked how you picked up your toys when you finished playing'. This will increase your self-esteem and know what is good behavior.2. Give him the time he needs.
For children to solve problems they need time, you do not want them to do things faster than they can just because you are in a hurry.3. Help him at the beginning.
No one is born learned and children need a guide in learning to not feel frustrated about things. When you are doing some task you need to help at the beginning to know what to do and that little by little you will be withdrawing your help and that way you will realize that you are capable of doing things for yourself.4. Do not give orders, give suggestions.
The suggestions will help the children to make an effort, but if you only give orders they will only resist doing the task. It is also better that sometimes you give alternatives so that they are able to choose the best option to make an effort. For example, you can say to a child something like: 'Do you need help to do your homework or can you do it yourself?', And that will have a better answer than if you say 'Do your homework now or do not play' .5. Keep reasonable expectations
. Children innately want to please their parents, but you must be patient and have reasonable expectations that reflect the real capacity of the children and perhaps a little more, but not too much. In order for the children to feel motivated and make an effort, they must be able to achieve what is proposed to them.
