Children's complexes

My son wants to have the navel inside. He has it for outside, as if it were a button. I find it funny, original, different. But prefiere he prefers to be like the others, and does not want to teach it. There are children who leave their bangs long because they do not like their foreheads. Or always

My son wants to have the navel inside. He has it for outside, as if it were a button. I find it funny, original, different. But prefiere he prefers to be like the others, and does not want to teach it. There are children who leave their bangs long because they do not like their foreheads. Or always wear pants so as not to show your legs. Boys and girls who dream of having eyes of another color, hair of another form, smaller nose ... They are

complexes that do not help in anything to personal growth .Children's complexes often undermine their self-esteem .A doll to eliminate the complexes of a girl

Sophia

wanted to have straight blond hair and lighter skin, like her favorite doll. I hated those rebellious curls inherited from his mother , African-American. I also wanted to have thin lips and a narrower nose.Angelica Sweeting , Sophia's mother, realized that toys, full of stereotypes, also create and enhance many complexes in children. What did? Create a doll for your daughter, in the image and likeness of her. A brunette doll, with long curly hair and beautiful dark eyes. His mother got what she wanted: that the girl accepts herself as she is. Without complex.How complexes affect children

Angelica's goal is that of many fathers and mothers: teaching their children to love themselves as they are, without ending up worrying about those wide ankles, those arched legs, those big ears or that hair curled

Without having to want another body. Ignoring the insults of other children, those fearsome 'four eyes', 'ugly duckling', 'dwarf', 'fat' ... Undoubtedly, parents should teach their children not to insult others

, to tolerate and respect differences and to see it as something natural.But we must also prepare our children to receive insults y, and teach them to turn a deaf ear when they hear such cruel words. Teach them not to sink, not to bow their heads. Often, they will be for nonsense. It will be for a pair of trousers, for a hairstyle, for crooked teeth or for the shape of the eyes. Our son, if you want, if you value, will not have problems listening to each of these criticisms. Otherwise, your self-esteem will be terribly damaged.