Grandparents: do they raise or spoil their grandchildren?
Grandparents ... how important they are in the education of children! It is possible that they were strict, hard or authoritarian parents, but in their old age we witness a change in their character and they become patient, calm and permissive in the treatment of their grandchildren. Men who never c
Grandparents ... how important they are in the education of children! It is possible that they were strict, hard or authoritarian parents, but in their old age we witness a change in their character and they become patient, calm and permissive in the treatment of their grandchildren. Men who never changed diapers, now are grandparents experts in the removable and removable. Women who were more aware of the priorities of the house and the care of the children, leave the tasks undone to play with their grandchildren. They are good grandparents for their grandchildren.Good things about grandparents
In my case, I have to say that I am very lucky, both my in-laws and my mother are
excellent grandparents . They adore their grandchildren and can not do enough for them. They take care of them on vacations, they pick them up from school when I can not and they are always there to lend a hand. They love them and my children notice it, so much so that they spend the day asking to go see the grandparents. What would I do without them!Grandparents can do a lot of good for their grandchildren: al - having more patience and time than many parents
can give them great peace of mind. Parents go sometimes in a hurry and stressed by life and we have no room for details.
- can transmit great experiences and knowledge that grandchildren will keep forever. L - l is give love, love and mimes , all values that will be translated into the welfare for the child.
Bad things of the grandparents
The grandparents are not perfect, as the parents are wrong and also, we all know that there are grandparents who go out of their way for their grandchildren and other carefree, authoritarian and not present in their day to day. In any case and despite putting everything on their side, one of the main complaints of parents towards grandparents istheir extraordinary ability to 'spoil'.
Parents put standards such as: 'do not sleep in the arms of the baby', 'do not give him food, he only knows', 'let him put on his shoes, the child can do it', 'do not give him so many things' ... and when you turn around, they have dressed and put the shoes on the child to go to the street, they have fed the child ... of 5 years !, they have slept in the arms of the baby and like every day, the children have a new gift There is no one who fights with the rebellion of grandparents.
Then the children come home and they want you to feed them or see them even though you have invested time and effort in teaching them to be autonomous. Fighting against these 'small licenses' of the grandparents is, at times, a lost battle. It is therefore a fact that parents raise and grandparents spoil. It is possible that when we are grandparents we also do it.
In any case, if we put in the balance the negative and positive things of a grandfather, they weigh so much good that no grandchild should grow without the inestimable presence of a grandfather or grandfather in his life, right?