As a child grows up he will realize that not all the people around him are good people . There are people of all kinds, from good, altruistic or empathic to cruel, ruthless and with serious emotional problems. For this reason your child must learn to differentiate the good from the bad people, becau
As a child grows up he will realize that not all the people around him are good people. There are people of all kinds, from good, altruistic or empathic to cruel, ruthless and with serious emotional problems. For this reason your child must learn to differentiate the good from the bad people, because in this way you can take away from your life those who will not give you anything (or rather just problems).
Why is it important for the child to know how to defend himself
Although we parents would like to be always with our children so we can help them in whatever way is necessary and guide them so they do not make mistakes, this will not always be the case. As the children grow they become more autonomous and begin to have their time, their world and their environment, although you as a parent are part of their world, will have to know how to defend themselves from other people.
But even if you are not in front of the problems you may have, what you can do is teach yourself to defend yourself, for example from cruel children. But how to do it?
6 tips to teach your child to defend against cruel children
The first thing you will have to do is teach your child that in this world there will always be good people, but also bad people. There are people who will not like you and those people will not have to be in your life. But how to defend yourself against a cruel child?
1. You will not have to give importance to the comments of the cruel child, everything he says is a reflection of himself. A cruel child is because someone is being with him first.
2. It is important that if the cruel child intimidates you or behaves aggressively with your child, you will have to seek adult help to be able to resolve the conflict.
3. Do not teach your child to be equally cruel to others because you will only manage to teach them wrong values, it is better to understand empathy to understand the behavior of others than to do the same. En 4. Teach your child to treat others the way he wants to be treated,
even the cruel child. A cruel child who is treated with kindness will not understand what is happening, in a way his cruelty is a wrong way to get attention. D 5. Tell him to always avoid the cruel child as much as possible, que and always be accompanied. 6. Teach her to ignore harmful comments.
To ignore and get away from the cruel child is the bravest act you can do. And of course, do not hesitate to congratulate your son every time he tells you and tell you what happens in his life.