How to teach children to win

We all like to win, but there are different ways to win . There is the way to gain toxic that you like because it leaves others below you and the way to win healthy is done with humility and that you have the effort and dedication as the best friends to get it. In the case of the ganar form to gain

We all like to win, but there are different ways to win. There is the way to gain toxic that you like because it leaves others below you and the way to win healthy is done with humility and that you have the effort and dedication as the best friends to get it.

In the case of the ganar form to gain toxic ,it does not matter what means are used to achieve it, nor does it matter if the feelings of others are hurt or not. This way of winning has only one goal: to win. The children (and also the adults) who feel that this way of winning is the right one, is when we have a feeling (real but hidden) of insecurity and inferiority. The importance of teaching children to win

People who want to win at all costs and be above others are people who need to demonstrate to others that they are above, that they have better abilities (although they do not really feel it A) Yes). These people, if they have children, it will be difficult for them to change that "chip" to teach the little ones how to win without competitiveness, something that children can undoubtedly seriously damage in their self-esteem in their relationship with others.

People who have a healthy way of winning will be those people who will transmit to their children

the value of effort del, teamwork and perseverance. These parents will be able to teach children that the road is much more important than the goal, and that if you do not win, absolutely nothing happens because what really matters is having tried and made an effort to achieve it. How to teach children to win in a healthy wayAs you can imagine

the way to win healthy

is the one that all children need to learn in order to increase their self-esteem and their personal confidence. Children need to know that they believe in them, they should feel that they are capable of doing it but that the act of winning or losing will be secondary. And these children who will value the effort and dedication, but if they win it will be good but if they lose it will be learning ... they will be the ones that really win. On the other hand, children who are subject to having their parents want them to win at all costs, that toxic competitiveness is what moves their lives ... these children will suffer stress, anxiety, constant worry ... they will really be children who will not enjoy what they they do and will only want to show others that they can do it, instead of demonstrating it to themselves. This type of teaching, which shows that the result is the one that really matters, is that which encourages children, for example, to copy in exams. The best way to teach children to win is to focus on the effort, dedication and make the children see that

the result is only part of the way.