Why there are children who have to repeat things many times

Most children when they are at an early age have to repeat things several times a day. From the 'get dressed late to school' to the 'do not get on that table that is very high'. This can make adults get tired and lose their nerves. But, why is this happening? Why can children become so disobedient?

Most children when they are at an early age have to repeat things several times a day. From the 'get dressed late to school' to the 'do not get on that table that is very high'. This can make adults get tired and lose their nerves.

But, why is this happening? Why can children become so disobedient? Causes of disobedience in children1. When the problem is communication.

There are times when adults do not know how to communicate effectively with children. Sometimes parents scold for anything, shout it out, or demand things from their children that they would not even do. When information reaches them in this way it is much more difficult for children to see the immediate effects of their actions

What can we do? Above all, have patience and not lose your nerves so you do not scream.

We must observe them and discover the reason for their behavior. Once we know it is when we can start a dialogue with them, for example: 'I know you do this for this reason, but if you do it again, something bad can happen'. Once the dialogue has begun, it would be convenient to ask their opinion about it and we will work on empathy and emotional states. 2. When the problem is bad habits. One of the most common mistakes is that parents always correct the mistakes that the child makes instead of letting them know about them and he is the one who remedies. The key is

that we let him see the consequences of his actions instead of repeating things 100 times. Let him act and not be the ones who do the task or punish him. Will be an error. In conclusion, it is not so much about repeating as it is about acting and thus preventing the adult's voice from becoming that background noise that ultimately stops being heard. What can we do? Adults should be constant and be patient with the child

. To do this, parents must understand that their task will be to accompany the child losing the 'comfort' they had when they were not. Tips for the child to be obedientWe have to act since they are small, avoiding giving the impression that everything is worth it. We must set standards from the beginning being one of them to obey. Some tips:

1.

Be an example

, a model when doing homework. For example: keep toys together until you can do it alone. 2.Congratulate, hug, kiss

, recognize him when he does things right. 3.Things have to be told with contact

, that is, looking into their eyes. If it is done from a distance it does not work. 4.Neither scream nor threaten

because we can achieve the opposite effect. 5. Patience is important

. We must know that he will not obey the first one.