We are accustomed to having in our society 'tyrannical children', those children who provoke discomfort when trying to impose their will using psychological pressure instead of physical force. Tyrant children feel that they can impose their will because they feel that they are superior beings and th
We are accustomed to having in our society 'tyrannical children', those children who provoke discomfort when trying to impose their will using psychological pressure instead of physical force.
Tyrant children feel that they can impose their will because they feel that they are superior beings and that others should be their subjects. In adults it also happens. There are parents who think they have superior knowledge and feel that their destiny is to pressure people for their own benefit, humiliating others makes them feel good. But since they can not do it with others, they do it with their children, defenseless children who in theory must learn from those beings who need urgent psychological intervention.
Characteristics of tyrannical parents
Tyrannical parents exist and do a lot of harm to the children who suffer from it, children who are growing up and need the support and love of their parents, and in no case feel fear towards them, exactly what that causes parental tyranny.
Words like: 'I told you, you idiot', 'You're sick', 'You're the guilty one of everything', 'You'll never make it', 'I already do it, you're useless', and a long one and unbearable list, it comes out of the mouth of tyrannical parents.
-The tyrant father forces children to do things that go beyond what they should do as a child. They press the child in everything they can and put aside the feelings of the child, the tyrant father thinks that since he has superior knowledge it will be good for the little one in the long term, although what he is really doing is destroying the child's self-esteem.
-Tyrant parents are sure that they are doing the right thing, but what they really get is for the children to become their victims and to start hating them and trying to avoid them. In addition, the children (victims) will begin to refuse to comply with the imposed things and to do things in secret, without trusting the parents and creating a negative feeling inside that produces a harmful emotional burden too severe. Tyrant parents create liars, rebels and sometimes delinquent children. Children can also become resentful children or perhaps, they become other tyrants because of learned behavior.
The relationship with tyrannical parents deteriorates every day, because there will be a struggle between parents and children, shouting, insults and physical and verbal violence.
How to avoid being a tyrant father
You can avoid being a tyrant father by following these guidelines:
1. Never say 'I told you so'.
2. Do not insult or use negative labels.
3. Admit that what seems right to you does not always have to be right.
4. Stop using threats or value judgments. Pien 5. Think about things before you speak, trying to find out if your words could hurt the other's feelings.