Proud children think themselves better than others, authoritarian, violent or irresponsible and most times they have learned these behaviors at home, with the example received from proud parents, so the first point to educate the proud children will be to think about the education that is giving and
Proud children think themselves better than others, authoritarian, violent or irresponsible and most times they have learned these behaviors at home, with the example received from proud parents, so the first point to educate the proud children will be to think about the education that is giving and what they see at home.
How proud children are
Proud children are not able to respect others and the education they should receive should be oriented to guide that attitude to know the limits between people, respect and all this will only be achieved with a good emotional education.
If parents do not correct their own behavior at home in the case they are proud, the education they are giving their children will not help. If they are not arrogant but have a too permissive or tolerant environment with arrogant children will also have negative consequences on the social development of children, both now and in the future as it can even become future school harassers.
Proud children have pride and like to show their merits to be recognized, they also have the audacity to belittle others because they feel superior for what they only care about themselves but need others to be their subjects.
In addition, the proud children need constant recognition but they also humiliate and are cynical, something that will make them have enemies. But they really have low self-esteem, insecurity and fear that camouflage with this behavior, for this reason needs to be constantly recognized to see that it is not inferior and therefore criticizes others, not to reflect their own shortcomings.
This kind of way of being has nothing to do with being stubborn or stubborn, because children who are of this type do not need to feel superior to others at all, nor to humiliate others to feel good, they simply want to affirm their position .
How to educate proud children
The first thing that needs to be done to educate the proud children is that the parents look at themselves and values themselves how is their habitual behavior porque, because they will probably have to make some modifications. Here are some tips so that if it is the case, you have in consideration to educate your children with arrogance:- Inform yourself about
Emotional Education to be able to carry it out from home. - Establish norms and limits
at home where everyone is happy and in accordance with the rules and consequences of non-compliance. Dejar - Stop criticizing others in front of the child and explain that it is not appropriate to criticize other people because everyone is what they are and before doing so, we must analyze that defect in ourselves. - Laugh in the family
. Laughter heals any emotional wound so it will help your children have fewer negative thoughts. Try to make the climate at home as positive as possible and make relationships between all the members by establishing close emotional ties.
- Learn to forgive. To forgive you must have developed empathy or at least in process, so putting yourself in the other's place is very important to increase the tranquility and personal satisfaction.
María José Roldán Special Education Teacher (Therapeutic Pedagogy)Psychopedagogist