How to recognize the virtues and strengths of children

All parents want the best for our children but, nevertheless, many parents forget to promote it in an appropriate way because children have to discover their talents but parents must recognize them and guide the children so that they are able to achieve all their successes. The virtues can be many a

All parents want the best for our children but, nevertheless, many parents forget to promote it in an appropriate way because children have to discover their talents but parents must recognize them and guide the children so that they are able to achieve all their successes.

The virtues can be many and varied but there are studies that focus on dividing them and grouping the strengths and strengths of people in short lists. But today I do not want to classify the virtues and strengths in a scheme as those studies do because it seems too abstract and generic a list.

Learn to recognize the virtues and strengths of your child

I will explain how to recognize the strengths and strengths of children regardless of what they are, so that children feel that they can achieve much more by feeling the unconditional support of parents.

First the parents will have to understand that the virtues and strengths of the children do not have to be always how they want it to be, because although the duty of the parents is to guide the children, they should not be molded, they should be discovered.

There are children who excel in mathematics, others in music, others in sports, others stand out for their generosity, others for their tolerance ... every child is a world and not everyone should excel academically, in sports, in art, etc. There are also children who stand out in the world of emotions and this must also be enhanced, they can even stand out in several things! That is, in skills and emotions.

Be that as it may, what is important is that the parents discover the virtues and strengths of the children and that in addition to empowering them, they also respect them (although the parents do not like it because they had in mind another type of "future" for their children).

Motivate the children to develop their virtue

Once it is discovered where the child stands out the most, it is important to support him unconditionally so that he feels motivated, that he sees that the parents are at his side to encourage him, so that if he makes a mistake see that nothing happens that there are always more opportunities to improve because what matters is to be constant and persistent in order to achieve all the goals.

I also want to make parents think that they are reading me so they can change their discourse when they refer to their children, because that will also help the little ones to strengthen everything they have inside them how to do this? Very simple, it is so easy to convert the virtues of the children in what society often sees as defects, for example instead of calling a child "stubborn" you can use the term 'determined', instead of calling it ' heavy 'can be called' tenacious' ... and so many examples as children with wonderful personalities as there are in the world.