Why should we avoid shouting at our children
Even the most patient, calm and calm person has lost their nerves at some point in the face of childish misbehavior and has found out by shouting at their children to reprimand them. We are human, mortal and imperfect and, however well we try to do things, sometimes we are wrong. I guess no one like
Even the most patient, calm and calm person has lost their nerves at some point in the face of childish misbehavior and has found out by shouting at their children to reprimand them. We are human, mortal and imperfect and, however well we try to do things, sometimes we are wrong. I guess no one likes to get angry and scream at their children, but what happens when this behavior is constant and the children are educated based on shouting and bad manners.
Consequences of shouting to our children to educate them
Yesterday I took my children to swim and in the locker room, while the parents dressed the children, a mother shouted without stopping her son for any reason: because her sock fell off, because she did not collaborate to dress herself, because she clung to her with force ... Everything was a reason for shouting, the rest of the parents looked at us between scandalized and distressed. Maybe that mom had a bad day, maybe the boy had been misbehaving all day, or maybe, unfortunately, it was his way of treating him.
Sometimes parents apply educational models inherited from our parents. And, if some of them were treated with an iron hand, they use the same strategy and do not understand that the treatment and education of the children can be otherwise. At other times the stress or frustration of parents end up paying the weakest, children.
However, all pedagogues and child psychologists agree on this point: to get the child to obey and have good behavior, you do not need to humiliate him, shout at him or use verbal violence.
What will happen if we constantly shout at our children to scold them?
- Maybe raising the tone at some point causes its effect, but if this is constant, the child will get used to it los, the screaming will not have the effect that the Father pretends and will go from exercising authority with his children to authoritarianism. El - The constant use of the cry can lead to the deterioration of the self-esteem of the child, who will not feel valued or loved by their parents or, on the contrary, can become a rebel, constantly defying authority. Los - Parents are examples for children, aggressive behavior will have a direct impact on the child, who will adopt this behavior and will also become accustomed to shouting and to have aggressive behaviors. Then he will use them with friends, acquaintances or even against parents.- It will only cause
a state of nerves and stress in the child
that will not be beneficial for its development.
And now, stand up and think, are you one of those who screams too much or too much at your children? Maybe it's time to try another path, and you may realize that it is much more effective.
