How to change the behavior of children with values
Envy, anger, pride ... each and every one of these feelings (which, of course, also occur in children), represent a counter value. The counter values are just the opposite of the values that help us grow and relate in harmony with others. Children, just as they learn to behave guided by certain
Envy, anger, pride ... each and every one of these feelings (which, of course, also occur in children), represent a counter value. The counter values are just the opposite of the values that help us grow and relate in harmony with others.
Children, just as they learn to behave guided by certain values, also learn not to get carried away by these counter-values.
How countervalues affect children
We show you the main countervalues that your child will have to face from an early age. Contravalues such as envy, disobedience, anger or impatience, are natural feelings that arise spontaneously in the first years of life and that you will have to teach them to control.
Do not be scared when these feelings arise. The most normal thing is that the child does not know how to handle them. You can help him understand what is frustrating and you can explain how he can overcome it.
Main countervalues in childhood
Resentment. We give you advice to teach your child to forgive and not to be spiteful towards his friends. It is a fundamental value, that of forgiveness, which is learned from a young age.
Envy. Envy is a destructive feeling, nothing enriching, although it is normal to appear at some point in childhood. You can keep your child from being envious of others. We explain how.
Greed. Greed a countervalue, an attitude that does not help to grow in a healthy way. Therefore, we must try to transform the feeling that children sometimes live for another that brings benefits. We teach you how to help your child not to be greedy.
The lie. All the children have lied at some time. But there are children with more facility to lie. We explain why they do it and what you should do when you discover that your son is lying. We show you some resources that you can use to stop the habit of lying of your children. Teach them that lies have short legs.
Impatience. Patience is a value that is learned, but very complicated to apply for children. Children are impatient by nature, but they can learn to control this impatience. We explain how.
Irresponsibility. Responsibility is one of the values that are learned. Irresponsibility undoubtedly leads to failure in all aspects of life. That is why it is important that parents know how to educate children to be responsible. We give you some tips.
The pride. The proud children do not accept criticism, they are arrogant and they need to be constantly admonished. But this arrogance is a sign that they have a lack and low self-esteem. We explain how to educate proud children.
Tyranny. There are children whose demanding behavior is exaggerated. So much so, that they can become 'tyrant' children. What can parents do to change this attitude?
Prepotence. The arrogance is that impulse that makes the child feel superior to the rest. It often leads to violent behavior if they contradict him, since he will always try to impose his will and has a lot to do with bullying or bullying. We explain to you what this behavior is due to and how you can avoid arrogance in children.
Sloth Some children refuse to do things out of sheer laziness. They avoid responsibilities and tasks at all costs. How can we help them so that they do not become lazy children?
